Katie 17, 2012, 9:42 am july
We agree to you… i dunno. Its difficult. I simply know personally i couldnt just let your ex glare at me personally for no reason… like, sorry woman, be angry at him. I’ve done absolutely nothing to you. But thats simply the person I will be.
Like i stated, i wouldnt walk out my method to you will need to communicate with her, but if she sets the record right aided by the girlfriend, ideally she’s going to turn her focus through the LW being a concern to your man being the matter, which can be what is happening.
Katie July 17, 2012, 9:50 am
And in addition, exactly what would you want to bet they talk all the time that he is feeding his new girlfriend the whole “crazy ex” routine to explain why? And was operating into one another actually just a coincidence?
Nadine 17, 2012, 9:52 am july
I could realise why you’d believe means, it isnt nice never to be liked, but We browse the page to be in regards to the LW relationship with ex-BF, maybe perhaps not the ex-BF present relationship. Thats simply a complicator. The LW can only just get a grip on her very own actions, and overlook the ex-BF calling and being inconvenient. Their relationship with brand new GF is none of her company, and honestly, the 2 girls don’t need to be buddies after all. It could you need to be an additional backlink to the guy when it comes to LW, that is wanting to cut psychological ties.
Katie 17, 2012, 9:54 am july
Thats an excellent point for sure!
Nadine July 17, 2012, 10:01 am
Oh and god, we hate the crazy ex routine – I used to be buddies using this number of dudes whom once had such lady-issues, and all sorts of the girls they dated would get crazy in it after a few weeks and I’d get actually astonished, cos they seemed therefore normal if you ask me? Then it was realised by me personally ended up beingn’t the girls, its the inventors. And also the girls had been all people that are just normal, you realize, desired to determine if that they had a boyfriend or not…….
Katie 17, 2012, 10:04 am july
Yea. Its love, as soon as that takes place enough times- what’s the typical denominator? YOU MIGHT BE!!
I do feel detrimental to this GF that is new. She deserves to possess a guy’s attention that is full. And she deserves some guy who isnt hung through to his ex, calling her and telling her which he nevertheless longs for her and material. Thats messed up! And she most likely hates the LW considering that the man is telling her a lot of crap about her. Its simply all incorrect. The whole thing.
Nadine July 17, 2012, 10:09 am
I’m bad she needs to look out for herself for her too, but. Its difficult being the girlfriend that is first a long relationship, but thats generally why a lot of people go into these with their eyes spacious. Oh and the guy has to“ stop droppingBut i’ve a girlllllllfriend! ” into conversation. We keep imagining him carrying it out the method the crossdresser does it in minimal Britain, perhaps you have seen that? “Oh, but I’m a layyyyydeee! ”
Bagge72 17, 2012, 10:25 am july
Yeah that “but I have girlfriend” line is such crap, the LW knows which he has a GF, he could be simply in search of a response everytime he states it. He desires the LW become like “well I don’t care if you do have a GF, i am going to nevertheless blow you” or “Dump that skank, and get back to me”
Katie 17, 2012, 10:27 am july
Yea, its like whenever i was in senior school and me personally and my boyfriend would split up every single other week, in which he would “accidently” text me or something like that just therefore we would fight to get straight back together.
Lets_be_honest 17, 2012, 2:45 pm july
@katie, hahaha “just so we would fight to get straight back together”
Kerrycontrary July 17, 2012, 10:05 am
I’ve said right here a whole lot, if the man whips out of the word that is“crazy operate one other method. I know therefore a lot of men who utilize that word to hide due to their dickish behavior.
Will.i.am July 17, 2012, 11:56 am
We don’t understand why individuals would phone somebody crazy into the beginning. I just state we didn’t see http://datingmentor.org/sports-dating/ eye to eye long-term and then leave it at that. The very fact which you place a “crazy” label on it, makes me think perhaps you are the one which loves to stir the muck.
Will.i.am July 17, 2012, 11:57 am
Additionally, you could be kinda crazy as well if you are willing to call someone crazy, wouldn’t that mean?
Rilooyah 17, 2012, 4:44 pm july
Therefore real! When the “crazy” comes away, Im operating one other method. I do believe it absolutely was stated above- once you attract the crazy, the typical denominator is constantly YOU, friend.
Bagge72 July 17, 2012, 10:21 am
The truth is, that it’s partially the LW’s fault, she understands that he could be in this relationship, and she’s knows that when this occurred to her she most likely will be upset about this too, yet somehow she will continue to respond to this dudes calls despite the fact that he keeps stating that he’s dreaming about her, and all sorts of of the bull shit.
Lets_be_honest July 17, 2012, 10:26 am
Yep! We totally agree. LW, just stop responding to. Don’t talk to the woman because your simply likely to cause drama. You must just recognize he’s maybe not your boyfriend and also that you know he has a girlfriend is making you a bad guy in this too though you still like his attention, the fact.
Katie July 17, 2012, 10:35 am
That is a point that is great you dudes. I didnt consider it like this.
So LW, them happyness, leave them alone!! Like eljay (i love you, eljay) said, someone has to be the adult in this situation if you really do respect their relationship and wish. You have to do it if he is not willing to be.
Painted_lady 17, 2012, 2:17 pm july
Amen bestie – I trust you about talking to your girlfriend. That knows exactly exactly exactly what this guy has stated concerning the LW to justify their talking so frequently, but even though the relationship is none of the company, the fact that the LW and also the girlfriend that is new met now i believe permits the LW some freedom. That I had heard about and wanted to get along with (I’m going to assume that the LW wants that? ) and it went horribly, I might reach out and go, hey, I’m so sorry that went badly if I had been in a situation where a friend brought someone around. She does not fundamentally need to state, “Hey, so that your boyfriend was saying _____ in my experience and he’s the only calling, and then he said you had been fine with this specific, ” just “Hey, I’m therefore sorry that went poorly, I became beneath the impression you were ok with your being buddies, but i recently discovered I’m maybe not fine with our being friends either, therefore it’s no problem anymore. ”
Kerrycontrary 17, 2012, 9:37 am july
I’dn’t speak with the gf about it. I would want is their ex of 3 years reaching out to me if I were dating someone for two months the last thing. And simply to inform you which you respect her relationship? I would personally think you had been bullshitting me personally and playing mind games. Just just Take Wendy’s advice and inform your ex partner you don’t like to hear them alone from him for a while, and then leave. Honestly they probably won’t workout them work that out themselves because you are still in the picture (which doesn’t do great things for a new relationship), but let.
Kerrycontrary 17, 2012, 9:39 am july
Oh in addition, that we leave immediately if I were the new girlfriend and my bf and I ran into his ex at a bar I would also demand. It is therefore uncomfortable. Everybody pretends they can be” that is“mature remain buddies with exes and stay completely okay whenever your SO’s ex appears, but why? You don’t have become OK with being around your boyfriends ex-girlfriend of three years.
Bagge72 17, 2012, 10:28 am july