We cheated on my spouse because We decided to. No excuses. No rationalizations. No fault. We cheated. That’s it. We was indeed together for 21 years. We hurt everyone else Everyone loves as a result of a selfish decision…and this is a decision…not an accident. We arrived clean to any or all that really matters. Because lies spoil everything. We discovered that the hard way…which seemed like a good way at that time. My advice to a person who is contemplating cheating…don’t. My advice to somebody who is cheating now…stop. There is certainlyn’t excitement that is enough the entire world that is worth the devestation this work causes. We have forgiven myself because that is all i could get a handle on. I’m managing the consequences everyday and I also will for the others of my times. Really the only thing that is positive will get using this will be in a position to offer advice from anyone who has been here to whomever might need it…and maybe change their minds. Continue reading “We cheated to my spouse because We decided to. No excuses. No rationalizations.”